With children present, a wedding is more than the joining of two people - it is the proclaiming of a new family.
Today, over 25% of all marriages include children – both children from previous relationships and those the bride and groom may have together. For this reason, the Family Medallion wedding ceremony has become the primary resource for acknowledging family commitments during the wedding. (To see actual video presentation, click here; for family wedding articles, click here.)
The Family Medallion is the symbol for family unity. It’s
presentation during the wedding (or as a special gift)
offers a significant
opportunity to acknowledge children of all ages and to provide them with a
lasting reminder of their importance. Inclusion of children in the wedding
creates a bonding experience that says to child and guests alike, “I am loved,
endowed with dignity and worthy of being cared for.”
(Presentation of the Family Medallion usually follows the
pronouncement of the couple as husband and wife. Below is a ceremony outline. A
complete ceremony booklet, easily adapted to all religious and civil wedding
traditions, comes with each Family Medallion order.)
INTRODUCTION: Often
we think of a wedding as the union of two people. In reality, it is much
broader. It is also a coming together of families …
SCRIPTURE READING: (Optional reading of scripture
related to the oneness of God’s family.)
RECOGNITION OF CHILDREN: As part of the family nature of
this marriage (and God’s creation), we especially recognize …
FAMILY MEDALLION PRESENTATION: Two circles often symbolize
love. The Family Medallion has three circles to represent love that reaches out
…
PARENT’S PLEDGE: In presenting this/these Family
Medallion(s), we pledge to you our continuing love ….
LIGHTING OF FAMILY CANDLE: (Optional lighting of the “Our
Family” Wedding Candle may be included. Click here
to see "Our Family Candle").
FAMILY PRAYER: We give thanks, O Lord for the relationship here celebrated. We are humbled by the recognition that today we face a new future, one which love is unfolding before our very eyes …
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